Winter germs are seriously bad this year, folks! There is a really bad strain of flu going about here that has terrified most of us with small children, especially because several people have died from it here including an 18-month-old boy. This has really freaked out a lot of people because his deterioration was apparently very rapid from fairly regular flu symptoms to then contracting sepsis and somehow passing away. The authorities have been light on the details – so we have no idea if he had underlying health issues or whether he was vaccinated – but it still has struck fear into all of our hearts.
We have unfortunately not been immune from The Germs, with N coming down with very high fever last Thursday. It was pretty clear to me even then that it was not just a cold virus. You can just tell when it’s your own child that they are Properly Sick. So poor N had a raging temperature for a few nights. He was poorly during the day too, but definitely a lot worse with fever in the evening. We treated him with paracetamol (Calpol) and Ibuprofen (Nurofen), although when his temperature is really high I find that Ibuprofen is much more effective at bringing it down.
The poor small chicken ended up in our bed three nights in a row as he was waking at night and needing comforting. Actually he was waking at night and needing his fever brought down, but once that happened he then tended to find bonus energy and tore around our apartment for hours. On one night he woke up at 1.30am and I didn’t get him back to bed until 5.30am. I had not slept much before he woke up so that was a Very Long Night only improved by the fact that he slept in the next morning, and it was Saturday so I didn’t have to get up either. It was quite sweet having his little cherub face right next to mine when I woke up and I could briefly see the appeal of co-sleeping.
On Saturday he had a visit to the paediatrician due to the fear of the flu, but she more-or-less said we needed to wait it out as there was no point in giving antibiotics just for flu. Children need to have an infection, e.g. a chest infection, ear infection etc before there is any justification for antibiotics.
Thankfully by Sunday he had made an improvement enough that we took him out on an adventure to a camel farm which he absolutely loved! There were many other animals there too and he seemed to take a particular shine to the goats. I don’t know what to make of that as most of the time he was staring fascinated at the goats they were mating…
But such is the strength of these germs he has really not fully recovered since. Last night, when having a cuddle on our bed with daddy he crashed out asleep about 2 hours before his usual bedtime and before having any dinner or a bath or anything. We really didn’t know what to do with him – do you wake him or leave him sleep? We eventually decided just to put him in his own bed fully clothed which was partially successful as he slept there for a few hours, but was disturbed by a cough he acquired. So then we had a very well-rested toddler who ran around until 11pm. We did get some food into him and gave him a bath so when he settled for the night he didn’t wake up again, but it was certainly an unusual night!
This morning he looked weary when I woke him, with perhaps a mild rash on his cheeks. He certainly didn’t look 100% well. Then, this afternoon he really looked exhausted at around 3.30pm. He only has one nap a day around lunchtime so to be tired at this time is strange. But it was an easy decision to pop in bed for a bonus nap… I woke him at 5.00pm and I’m pretty sure if I hadn’t he would have kept going for a while longer! As it was he then didn’t want to go down for the night until 9.30pm, but that was ok. I’m worried he is going to wake up again tonight but fingers crossed he makes it through and feels better tomorrow. Honestly, I have had enough of illness around here!
I had another blood test today which showed some good news though. Some of the markers for inflammation are vastly reduced since starting the steroids two weeks ago which is really positive news. I’ve reduced my dose of prednisolone from 48mg/day to 36mg/day and this should mean slightly better sleep I hope. I’ve not been able to fully assess that yet as it’s a bit early but also I developed a chest infection this week. Yay me! This is not a huge surprise and it’s probably the same virus that N had over the weekend but as I have supressed my immune system with my medications there is not a lot of fight in me against evil viruses. So I am really a rattling pill shop these days, adding some antibiotics to the growing list of meds that I am taking.
In an effort to get myself back in order I went to yoga last Friday. It was a beginners class and I fully sucked at it, but I went! I then had some acupuncture on Saturday which I do think helped with my energy levels. I also have a hair appointment on Friday, so each of these seemingly inconsequential actions are actually the small puzzle pieces that I need to put together to get myself back on track. I’m sure something will derail me again in a small way again soon, but to have an action plan is really important to me. Going forward is the only option.