My last post was such an offloading of so many things that have been going down that I don’t think I gave a really good overview of life with Baby N right now. It seems that 13 months is a transitional age as he moves from baby-life to toddler-life and I can tell you that it is undoubtedly one thing and that is sticky! Now that Baby N is mobile, if not walking, he can get his hands in everything and he does. My poor cats can no longer have their food and water on the floor when Baby N is around because he either eats it (yes, I know, parenting fail!) or puts his hands in it and smears it everywhere. This is also the case for pretty much any item that is of a non-solid state and includes poo so during nappy changing you have got to be super-fast if there is a number 2 in there!
He is a funny guy these days no doubt, and it is such a joy to see him trying out new words. He’s definitely got the hang of mum/mamma/dad/dadda, and the next clearly audible words that followed were “quack” for rubber duckies and anything vaguely resembling a duck, to “cat” which he likes to shout when he sees any passing cat, dog, monkey or horse (not too many passing monkeys or horses around here, but there are plenty in his books)! I can sometimes hear him trying to say “yes” but what mainly comes out is “sssssss” which is cute. I am trying very hard to teach him “hiya” but I think the two syllables are my downfall.
He loves to do high fives and screams with delight at them. Other things that are super hilarious include his huge golden retriever dog toy from Ikea (20 EUR – excellent value for a giant fluffy animal), our cats chasing balls (usually from his toys), tickly cuddles on the bed, standing up with his hands all over the sliding doors blowing bubbles on the glass, his 2.5 year old cousin and daddy generally.
His number one favourite song right now is “I like to move it, move it”, the Will.I.Am version from the Madagascar movie (seriously addictive and very clever lyrics). He absolutely has no interest whatsoever in baby or children’s TV. I am trying my hardest to encourage him to watch the likes of Peppa Pig and even when I was in Australia I tried him out on Play School, Sesame Street and The Wiggles and he might have looked at them for a maximum of 20 seconds, usually when I song was playing. I know he’s young still, but what kid doesn’t like TV?! I’m very confused by this.
He does really enjoy books though and will often flick through them alone, although he does enjoy it when I read them to him, especially when they have texture or flaps to lift up.
He has started to show an interest in soft toys beyond his bunny cuddly which is cute. He grabs them and hugs them enthusiastically. He will also do the same thing with the cats’ tails if they stay still long enough to let him. Haha!
His food has been an interesting one though as he is making a transition from blended purees to textured food. He does enjoy eating himself but it is so ridiculously messy that we still do a combination of spoon feeding and self-feeding. But we are getting there. He is now fully transitioned off baby formula and his milk is cow’s milk which he enjoys. I don’t often give him milk at night before bed anymore as he has it with his dinner, but if he seems to need or want it I give it to him in a sippy cup. In the mornings though I’m still giving him milk in a bottle as he seems a bit cranky if I don’t. Slowly, slowly…
The past week though has been super trying as he suffered from very high fever for three days straight. His temperature was around 40 degrees most of the time so he was constantly having Calpol/Panadol and cool baths to bring it down. He had some 2am baths which were traumatic for everyone involved. It is so hard seeing your small one sick and not being able to do much to help them to feel better. We were all puzzled as to what was causing the fevers, even his paediatrician. But then on Tuesday he broke out in a full body rash and it was then that he was diagnosed with Roseola, which is a fairly common virus that young children get. It starts with several days of high fever and once the fever breaks the kids get a rash for a few days and then they feel better. Tuesday night was the worst as there was nothing I could do to calm him down and he howled right through the small hours of the night before crying himself to sleep in my arms in my bed. It’s safe to say that we were all wrecked on Wednesday – mummy, daddy and baby – although baby didn’t have to go to work and pretend to be able to think. Lucky baby in that regard.Today he is doing better though so thank goodness!
Baby N is not yet walking but he’s doing a lot of one-handed standing so I am wondering if it might come soon. He’s seemed really frustrated the past few days, but he’s also been sick so I’m not sure if he’s annoyed he can’t do more physically or annoyed that he’s sick or a bit of both. In any case he gets bored super easily these days so I think if he can work out how to walk it will open a whole new door of excitement to him. And a whole new world of worry for us. Welcome to being a parent of a toddler!